The Secret Life

Sermon. Carlisle Evangelical Free Church. Shad Baker.

Matthew 6:1-34

gift/grace - given because the receiver is loved
reward - given because of the receiver complete a task
- passage is about rewards

v1-4

1 “Beware of practicing your righteousness before other people in order to be seen by them, for then you will have no reward from your Father who is in heaven.

2 “Thus, when you give to the needy, sound no trumpet before you, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, that they may be praised by others. Truly, I say to you, they have received their reward. 3 But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, 4 so that your giving may be in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you.

Two types of rewards that we can seek:
1. given by people - honor/recognition/seen by
- includes good deeds done for the wrong reason
- these rewards don't last because people are fickle/limited
2. given by God - honor/recognition/seen by
- everlasting because God is everlasting

- value of the reward is determined by the giver (ex. president or a random guy off the street)

Challenge: Which reward am I working for?

v5-15

5 “And when you pray, you must not be like the hypocrites. For they love to stand and pray in the synagogues and at the street corners, that they may be seen by others. Truly, I say to you, they have received their reward. 6 But when you pray, go into your room and shut the door and pray to your Father who is in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you.

7 “And when you pray, do not heap up empty phrases as the Gentiles do, for they think that they will be heard for their many words. 8 Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask him. 9 Pray then like this:

“Our Father in heaven,
hallowed be your name.
10 Your kingdom come,
your will be done,
on earth as it is in heaven.
11 Give us this day our daily bread,
12 and forgive us our debts,
as we also have forgiven our debtors.
13 And lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from evil.

14 For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you, 15 but if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.

Two ways to pray:
1. Human - lengthy, fancy words
-trying to receive reward from and be noticed by humans
2. God's - short, sincere, length of words don't matter
- the Lord's Prayer would be considered pathetic by standards of TV evangelists (and me if I'm honest)

Reason for the difference:
- our prayers concerned with what others will think or trying to find the right formula to convince God to work on our behalf
- God's prayer is focused on God alone; God already knows what we're going to say before we say it and how he will answer it

Then why pray?
- for our benefit: reminds us of God's power/sovereignty, helps me reflect on person/situation
- must be focused on God, not gaining praise from others

v16-18

16 “And when you fast, do not look gloomy like the hypocrites, for they disfigure their faces that their fasting may be seen by others. Truly, I say to you, they have received their reward. 17 But when you fast, anoint your head and wash your face, 18 that your fasting may not be seen by others but by your Father who is in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you.

Two ways to fast:
- human: makes big deal out of it and makes it known to everyone; trying to receive human reward
- God: in secret, quiet; seeking God's reward

KEY: The way we choose is based on the rewards we value most. Which do I honestly want more? Am I living to please people and gather the things of this world? Or am I seeking after Christ and the reward he promised?
- we know that we will be rewarded but we don't know what it will be
--we are never told what the reward is so that we would work/live based on trust in God's character and promise and not a desire from our own greed/self-glorification
- salvation isn't a reward; it is a free gift. we are promised something else
- we can be sure that it'll be greater than anything we can think of but we must work in faith/trust

v19-24

19 “Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal, 20 but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal. 21 For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.

22 “The eye is the lamp of the body. So, if your eye is healthy, your whole body will be full of light, 23 but if your eye is bad, your whole body will be full of darkness. If then the light in you is darkness, how great is the darkness!

24 “No one can serve two masters, for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and money.

must pick who I will serve because it is impossible to serve all of them
- can't ride two bikes at the same time.
- am I willing to serve without know the reward but trusting in Christ?
--am I child or teenager?
---child - told to do something and will receive a great reward in return? he will go do it
---teenager - told to do something and will receive a great reward in return? won't do it till the reward is revealed
----afraid of being short-changed; doesn't trust that he will be rewarded fairly
-----am I like this? Do I think God will be unfair with his reward? God has already generously given to me so why should I think he'll be anything else with his reward? must trust in the character revealed throughout scripture and in my life

v25-34

25 “Therefore I tell you, do not be anxious about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink, nor about your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing? 26 Look at the birds of the air: they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they? 27 And which of you by being anxious can add a single hour to his span of life? 28 And why are you anxious about clothing? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow: they neither toil nor spin, 29 yet I tell you, even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these. 30 But if God so clothes the grass of the field, which today is alive and tomorrow is thrown into the oven, will he not much more clothe you, O you of little faith? 31 Therefore do not be anxious, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ 32 For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. 33 But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.

34 “Therefore do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.

"spin" = a lot of movement but no progress, just a lot of wasted energy

- trust in God and the fact that he loves us
--seek first the kingdom of God and we'll be rewarded
--seek earthly things and we'll receive the earthly/fickle praise that is only fleeting and temporary

Where are my motives?
Why do I worry?
When I worry, where is my faith?
Am I worried about what others will think of me?
What rewards do my actions show that I'm working for?